Friday, February 10, 2012

bullied

http://www.tolerance.org/blog/100-days-school-100-days-bullying

When i finish reading this article I realize that many bullies  are made because they were bullied ones in their life or more times. They are many kids who says things to the bullies like this girl name Barbara said, “I actually get in there and say, ‘You guys need to cool it off because you will actually start fighting and not talking to each other anymore.’” If every body see what she see there wouldn't be anymore bullies. But no one things the same and is hard to make them see whats wrong. The student are the one that can help someone from being bullied.  They can do a lot of things to help them.

        Students can tell a teacher that he or someone else is being bullied. Yesterday at my school s teacher told us (my class ) that we can tell a teacher or someone else and it would be anonymous. That means that no one would know that it was you the one who say it. That is a good way to stop people from being bullied. One thing I learn by reading the article was that some people do want to stop  bullies from bully someone else. It says that this boy was a bully because he wanted to feel how the bully felt when he bullied him. And he also wanted to make the bully feel how he felt. Some bullies are made because  they were bullied. Some bullies are made because they want to take the anger they feel inside on someone else. So now the question we should ask is how can we stop people from being bullies and from being bullied?

Friday, February 3, 2012

conflicts creates the character

             Tyler wants to kill him self because he can't confront his problems. Everybody told him to be a man but nobody told him how. No one  is going to teach anyone how to be a man because they have to do it by them self. There are only two things you can do with your problems, one: you can solve them or two: you can scape them, but that is not a good choice. Tyler chose to scape them and that was a mistake. He never confront them. "You loaded the gun and put it in my hand. I blame my self, too. I let you do it." (Anderson 241) He let the problems consume him until the only thought that pass through his head was to kill him self. He even try to end his life but he couldn't. "I had the gun in my mouth and my finger in the trigger." (Anderson 240)

             The best way to solve your problems if to confront them. You can learn from your mistakes. By escaping form them Tyler made even  more problems for him. He didn't knew what to do or think. He only thought of killing him. He thought that by being  dead everything would be solve. But at the end he finaly confont them. Then he decided to stop thinking about killing him self.